Why Remorse Matters: The Power of Accountability in Parole Decisions
By Brandon S. Coppock, M.A., Senior Managing Partner, Favor Legal, L.L.C.
What Is Remorse in a Legal Context?
Remorse is an acknowledgment of the harm caused, paired with a demonstrated change in behavior. It's not enough to say “I’m sorry.” You must show:
Acceptance of responsibility,
An understanding of your impact,
Steps toward personal transformation.
Why the Board Cares
The Board is charged with public safety. If a person cannot admit they made a mistake—or understand its gravity—how can they be trusted not to repeat it?
How to Demonstrate Remorse
Participate in victim impact programs,
Engage in spiritual or therapeutic work,
Include apology letters (when appropriate),
Share written statements that reflect insight.
Avoiding False Remorse
Boards are trained to spot manipulation. Generic “I’m sorry” statements with no growth to back them up can hurt more than help.
At Favor Legal, we help clients communicate genuine remorse in a structured, credible way—without compromising legal positions.